It feels the worst when it starts out strong. That first month, he was so into you. Texting dozens of times a day. Planning the next date while you’re still on a date. Telling you effusively how beautiful you are, how much he likes you and how excited he is. Talking about a future. And then something happens. You don’t know what it is but everything feels different. Suddenly, his constant efforts start to wane and you’re left feeling off-balance.