"I would tell him: your whole life may not be seen by anyone but God, and that is all that matters. Because in the end we will all be exposed for who and what we are. And it will be clear, if we knew, God was watching the whole time." 

We are looking at non related external symptoms to one spiritual problem. Though unrelated are all connected?Using Galations 5:9 and James 2:10 NKJV as reference to God's word. Genesis 14-19 NKJV (paraphrased story of Lot). Jordan Peterson "Maps of meaning" (Chapter 1). Other biblical references: Ecclesiastes 7:10. Thomas Aquinas (The Pocket Aquinas: pgs. 30-50).