An episode for the books!

INTRO: Mary J. Blige - "Back 2 Life" / Drake - "Nonstop"

Topics include:

11:58: Insecure is back, but let's talk about it

26:29: The process of being #girldads

38:09: Men apologizing extensively

44:35: Feeling overworked and finding ways around it

INTERMISSION: Little Simz & Cleo Sol - "Woman"

58:30: What to expect from the Super Bowl performance

01:06:39: Critical Race Theory being banned in schools

01:25:15: Who wanted to be a boy more, Beyonce or Ciara?

01:33:00: Women asking you to slap them during sex

01:37:02: Congratulations to Rory & Mal

01:51:40: You got invited to the all-girls trip? Sneaky link?

OUTRO: Drake - "Final Fantasy"

Episode 56 next week. See you guys later

A lot of catching up, and a lot of figuring out!

Topics include:

INTRO: Joyce Wrice - "Chandler"

08:38 - How Mike & Markita met

21:09 - The process of being a business owner

29:00 - If you could talk to your younger self, what would you say

33:52 - Let's talk about the vaccine mandates

INTERMISSION: Keyshia Cole & Nas - "Oh Oh Yeah Yeah"

46:55 - What red flags do you pay attention to

56:29 - Being an employee during and after the pandemic

01:07:59 - Group chats can be annoying

01:28:37 - Jerome calls in

01:34:09 - Summer Walker "Still Over It" album

01:49:10 - Support Black Owned Businesses: @theselflovefix, @madamsjams and @thajuicecode

OUTRO: Bilal - "Reminisce"

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This episode is sponsored by Cazadores tequila. Really, but not really. This was fun. Let's pod!

INTRO: Normani & Cardi B, "Wild Side"

Topics include:

05:57 - Mel breaks down the beauty of motherhood

12:39 - When are you actually broken up?

23:35 - The process of going to therapy

36:37 - Breaking generational curses

INTERMISSION: Cleo Sol, "Sideways"

49:46 - Dig deeper into the hoe phase

57:40 - A real conversation about compromising

01:06:38 - The process of being an artist

01:28:04 - Support Black-Owned Businesses: @_barbully and @bgumsmurph

OUTRO: SiR, "LA Lisa"

Support the show by subscribing to the Patreon page at www. patreon.com/ifiletyoutellit where you will get visuals and more upcoming content. Thank you guys for continuing to listen and connect with the podcast! Without you, there is no If I Let You Tell It. See you next week for another episode while we work towards the season finale on November 29! Explosions!

Never have I ever had a conversation for the first time with someone on the show. But here we are, and the shit was madd entertaining. The first half of the show is for the wisdom, the second half is for the fuckery, so let's get to it!

INTRO: Tha Dogg Pound, "What Would U Do"

Topics include:

06:05 - Does a person's first name matter in dating someone?

11:47 - With a combination of 5 kids total, we break this fatherhood shit all the way down

27:34 - Relationships are HARD FUCKING WORK

40:45 - An introduction into the toxic portion of the show

INTERMISSION: NWA, "Chin Check"

55:11 - Some of the greatest story telling you will ever hear

59:00 - Who is a formidable opponent for 50 Cent?

01:09:53 - Ralph wants to start a podcast detailing black men, black fathers being more vulnerable with one another

01:24:24 - Throw your dick a party?

01:34:33 - Support Black-Owned Businesses: @nobilityfarms and @soundslikerae

OUTRO: DJ Quik, "Hand In Hand"

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Back in rare form! Topics include:

INTRO: BLK ODYSSY - "Drinking Good"

09:10 - What's your beef with Rory?

12:27 - Finally get to have a conversation about Drake and Certified Lover Boy

28:47 - Are you a serial dater?

42:30 - When do women shit????

46:19 - What's your favorite part about being a father?

INTERMISSION: Playa, "Together"

01:01:30 - Letting your girl practice makeup on you

01:12:13 - Don't you love having the upper hand in a relationship sometimes?

01:21:30 - Support Black-Owned Businesses: @ournanshousefcc and @ashleyj93

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50 episodes is amazing. Lemme talk to y'all.

Feeling better. Ready to pod, safely of course.

Special Guest: @millmonroe_

Topics include:

(08:13) - Our process of battling COVID

(21:09) - Thank you @theregoesjaz

(22:09) - Dealing with food deliveries during COVID

(26:39) - Mike revisits marriage-last name conversation after doing lineage research

(34:00) - Mom gets on the phone

INTERMISSION: Anthony Hamilton, "Since I Seen't You"

(45:00) - Keep it a buck about Blues Clues

(57:00) - Tommy The Clown pullin up to Camille's 10th Birthday party

(58:43) - Is making someone a playlist a love languange?

AND MORE

(01:24:28) - Support Black-Owned Businesses: @bgumsmurph & @j.e.m._events

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(Recorded September 1, 2021)

Special Guests: @king_jones___ and @tankxleydesigns aka @thegrindpodcast1

Topics include:

(09:09) - The beginning of The Grind Podcast

(13:38) - Relating on the ups and downs of doing something like a podcast

(27:42) - Is all toxicity, bad toxicity part one

(37:04) - When is the right time to post a significant other on social media

(44:20) - Let's really talk about bro code

INTERMISSION: @lionbabe - Going Through It

(01:01:52) - This generation's obsession with mental health

(01:25:43) - Is all toxicity, bad toxicity part two

Support Black-Owned Businesses: @blocla, @byhiddendesign, @earnyourleisure, @getlaced._ and @todd.capital)

Make sure to tap into the Patreon for even more parts of the podcast that is only exclusive to patrons at www.patreon.com/ifiletyoutellit. A full bonus episode will be released tomorrow! Thank you for your patience

What does it feel like?

Topics include:

(16:25) - Being real with yourself

(25:22) - Mike is slim thick

(27:05) - REDACTED, story available only on Patreon

(32:55) - The process of being a poet

(40:23) - You should never look for love

(44:44) - What part of you do you wish to carry with you forever

(53:08) - Checking to see if a couple deleted their pics on Instagram

(57:39) - Do you want any of your exes back?

(01:11:45) - Knowing your talent level

(01:14:05) - What's next...

(01:22:31) Support Black-Owned Businesses: @gmarienails and @wrappednroyaltyy

Let's talk about it!

Topics include:

09:26 - Stay off them damn crates

11:37 - Let's revisit the vaccination conversation

24:24 - Splitting the bills

49:07 - The ninety day rule gets revisited

56:11 - INTERMISSION: Kendrick Lamar, "Feel"

01:00:32 - Kendrick Lamar is releasing his final TDE album

01:23:18 - Support Black-Owned Businesses - @garnersgarden and @godfleaux

AND MORE!

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