The testing of your faith produces perseverance, you should ask God who gives generously to all without finding fault.  God does not rescue us from our hard times but gives us the tools to survive them, we need to own up to and learn from our mistakes.

Seek out Christians who are further along in their journey because like Farmers Insurance, "They know a thing or two because they've seen a thing or two."

proverbs -> wisdom worth more than silver