Hello and welcome to Episode 3 Season 2 of the Hopeful Romantic (M.A.N.) Podcast 
I am your host Mr. Drop'N Dimes a.k.a the Hopeful Romantic a.k.a the Feminist with Chauvinist tendencies. I want to welcome you to tonight's episode "if it dont apply let it fly" 
Be careful what you invest with your eyes and ears. Much of what you hear on the internet is addressing toxicity. The men and women who speak on relationships usually frame their advice or commentary within certain niche markets. When Menpreach they usually take one of two avenues. One is pro-man (I've been hurt this is how not to get hurt. Don't trust women) Two, is pro-women (Men are bad and don't stand for this don't stand for that). 
Women in the space do something very similar. It's either woman empowerment or it surounds feminine energy. 
Either way, I'm here to say don't fall for the trap. There is a huge middle ground of everyday people that don't live in those extremes. Plenty of men love their wives but need guidance on how to go from being treated well to great.  Plenty of women adore their husbands or mate and wish they worked on somethings that are not deal breakers.  Don't let the media have you fighting a fight that is not yours. It tends to create problems where a simple solution is an answer. You begin  to attach toxic traits to people who don't deserve them. Intern hurting your relationship for no reason.

I will also reach into the inbox to answer some questions 

All that and so much more 
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