There are still those people, who feel it is their right to take everything, anything away from you because they want to be catered to. They have all the insecurities about themselves and supposed envy that if you don't put them first, YOUR the bad guy. Mom's- who have people tell them that their life is nothing but about their kids...Its a tactic and they need to get out of your life because all they do is take, take, and take!