Dear Dolly Doctor, 

I've recently had a baby, and when I showed up to a dinner with my friends and an acquaintance said 'aw is the dad babysitting tonight haha,' and I was just speechless! How do I even respond?

Signed, he's a parent not a babysitter

This week we chat all things expectations and assumptions to do with parenting for women and men (particularly how little it takes to be heralded as an amazing dad versus how little it takes to be considered a shitty mum), Ali Wong, the mental load, Phil Dunphy, and stigma for stay at home parents.  

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