Dave Kang spent years trying to figure out his “one thing.” His Ikigai. It didn’t work. Now he's embraced life as a CEO. No, not that kind. A Chief Exploratory Octopus. A generalist with multiple interests (aka tentacles) reaching in different directions, without forcing it all to converge into one neat identity.

Now he writes about this on his Substack, helping other multi-talented, multi-interested people break free from the pressure to pick just one thing. Chatting with Dave was an absolute joy, and I left feeling inspired and reassured about being someone with “too many” interests.

Chapters

(00:00) The Ikigai Lie

(03:34) Becoming an Octopus

(06:56) Managing Multiple Tentacles Without Overwhelm

(11:20) Picking Up and Dropping Rocks

(13:40) Breaking Free from Optimization Culture

(16:56) The Three Hearts of an Octopus

(19:02) Time, Calendars, and Cultural Obsessions

(24:50) The Pressure to Monetize Everything

(30:02) When Work Kills Creative Passion

(31:44) Configuring Your Tentacle Portfolio

(36:12) Accomplishment vs. Living True to Yourself

(41:46) Destigmatizing Quitting

(48:14) Start with "Why Not?" Instead of "Why"

(54:10) Embarrassment and Putting Yourself Out There

(59:38) Finding Your Tribe and Mentors

(1:10:32) Book Recommendations

(1:13:56) Final Takeaway

More from Imperfect Creatives:

• Substack: https://imperfect.email
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imperfect_creatives

More from Dave:

• Substack: https://davekang.substack.com/

Books Mentioned:

• The Pathless Path by Paul Millerd
• The Great Work of Your Life by Stephen Cope
• Range by David Epstein
• 4,000 Weeks by Oliver Burkeman