This week wraps up the Illusion of Control, discussing the danger of attempting to control our lives through the trap of comparison. Paul 1 Corinthians 15 shows 2 potential pitfalls for falling into the trap of comparison. First, we tend to focus on our weakness; second, we focus on our greatness. The only solution is to focus firmly on Jesus, having our minds renewed in Him and becoming truly content.

Here are some discussion questions to further guide your conversation:

• Is comparison always a bad thing? In what ways can it be a useful tool? When does comparison turn dangerous?

• Read 1 Cor. 15:1-6. Why do you think it’s significant that Paul points out Jesus’ appearance to so many people, many of whom were still alive? Why is it so important that we understand the resurrection as a historical fact, not just a religious idea?

• Read 1 Cor. 15:7-10. Be vulnerable. What’s something in your life that makes you feel like “the least” of your friends? Why is it so easy to believe that these things define us? 

• What’s something in your life that makes you feel above other people? What’s the risk in believing this defines us? In either scenario, what’s really true of you in Jesus?

• Be honest. Where does most of your time, energy, and attention go every day? Why? What’s the fruit of that focus in your life? Is it growing joy or shame/anxiety?

• How do we practically focus on Jesus this week, not ourselves? In what ways can you “renew your mind”? What does it mean to "take thoughts captive”? How can you do that?

• Pray, asking God to help us focus our hearts on Jesus and grow in the fruit of the Spirit.