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In this episode, Elle explores the topic of dating financially unstable men. She shares stories from women who have had negative experiences in such relationships. Elle also delves into the concept of 'locus of control', explaining the difference between a high internal locus of control (taking responsibility for one's life) and a high external locus of control (blaming external factors for life outcomes). She argues that women with a high internal locus of control may struggle in relationships with men who have a high external locus of control, particularly if these men are financially unstable. She also warns against societal pressures that encourage women to "build up" their partners, which can often lead to a realization of why these men were financially unstable in the first place. Elle concludes by encouraging her listeners to take control of their romantic choices and to prioritize their own financial stability and wellbeing.

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