Doesn’t matter if it’s your selfish era or even just self care era, definitely protect your energy. It’s OK to be looked at as taboo. A lot of the times your taboo nature is a compass to your authenticity. If taboo means something completely different to you and you resonate with it, embrace it!!!!

A few things you may notice or experience as you enter into your selfish era:

1. distancing your self from people, places, and things that does not feed your soul. These things include gossip, shallowness, and entertaining negative energy or situations. Many times we behave in this manner unintentionally because we are not aware of how our behaviors can project onto others.

2. Being discerning of others opinions or judgments and how either of them affects our moods and influences our decisions. Be careful when you are just chatting with others about your business. You don’t have to be cold or secretive, understand there is a time or place to converse about your achievements or downfalls.

3. Being okay with being labeled taboo or odd. Labels do not dictate or control our narrative. We give power to others perceived ideas or thoughts about us by simply giving it recognition. Get to know the meaning behind radical acceptance and how it gives meaning behind “not taking anything personal”.

4. Understanding everything and everyone will be who they are, especially if they are comfortable with the fact that they do not have to be accountable for their actions. Many times people believe others are at fault for their decisions in a life where they lack control.