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My guest, Dr. Joseph Garcia, was speaking to me from the Pacific Northwest. As he said, "I'm 15 miles south of Canada and 6 miles in from the water (Pacific Ocean)."
Emma was born and raised in Alabama. She moved up North to Milwaukee and started her family in her 40's. Joseph is so proud of all his mom's accomplishments and is overwhelmed at times by the number of lives she touched. One of the things that impressed Joseph the most, is that "I never saw my mother get angry, ever in my life." She was sure to never raise her voice at home, because the look of disappointment was way more effective than any shouting could possibly be.
"Son, you're going to have to do twice as much, to get half as far," was one of Emma's most memorable expressions. She was trying to prepare her mixed race adopted son for the real world. In the 1950's, it could be challenging for people of color to find a significant job to help support the family.
Apparently Joseph didn't really have any interest in school as a teen. "It wasn't as important as my social life", say's Joseph. "My mother would often say "son I know you can do better, you have to decide to do that. Then she'd walk away." My guest continues, "children of color were not directed toward the college prep courses back then. But I took advantage of shop class, etc. I learned how to build a house."
It wasn't until seeing the rest of the world that Joseph realized how special his mother was and how fortunate he was growing up.
Because Dr. Garcia was adopted and because he was mixed race, he was often bullied and teased by his classmates. HIs mom wanted to help Joseph be resilient to this intimidation so she would say to her son, "yeah you're more than one race. We picked a child who had the best qualities of all the races put together into one child." And Joseph's direct response to these pests was " "yeah my mom chose me. Your parents are stuck with you!"
To this day, my guest is still shocked by the hundreds of friends and former students came to his mother's funeral when she passed at 99 years old. "They flew in from all over the country to pay their respect. She influenced so many people."
More of Emma's expressions:
"I'll rest when I die"
"I'm too old to be polite. I'm going to tell you the truth"
"Moss doesn't grow on me and I don't want it to grow on you"
"You always have to do something before you can do something else. AND there's always somethin"
"Son, don't pick something up before you have a place to put it down-that's not just stuff, that's people, that's things in your life, that's everything"
Dr. Joseph Garcia's Books:
14 Days To Baby Sign Language
Dr. Joseph Garcia's Complete Guide To Baby Sign Language
Dr. Joseph's FingerSpelling Book
WEBSITE:
https://drjosephgarcia.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqG2kinYPVwb4db5IiF1WF-edK-ttWiCYKK4nJ7hgYC6Upc9Mvd
https://drjosephgarcia.com/
"Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.
Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:
SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024
“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”
Jackie Tantillo’s “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it’s clear why it’s a 2023 People’s Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.
Each episode offers a chance to learn how different individuals have been shaped by their mothers’ actions and words. Jackie skillfully guides these conversations, revealing why guests with similar backgrounds have forged different paths.
This podcast is a collection of timeless stories that highlight the powerful role of maternal figures in our society. Whether your mother influenced you positively or you thrived despite challenges, this show resonates deeply.
I highly recommend “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast for its insightful, heartfelt and enriching content.
Gina Kunadian
"Should Have Listened To My Mother" would not be possible without the generosity, sincerity and insight from my guests. In 2018/2019, in getting ready to launch my podcast, so many were willing to give their time and share their personal stories of their relationship with their mother, for better or worse and what they learned from that maternal relationship.
Some of my guests include Nationally and Internationally recognized authors, Journalists, Columbia University Professors, Health Practitioners, Scientists, Artists, Attorneys, Baritone Singer, Pulitzer Prize Winning Journalist, Activists, Freighter Sea Captain, Film Production Manager, Professor of Writing Montclair State University, Attorney and family advocate @CUNY Law; NYC First Responder/NYC Firefighter, Child and Adult Special Needs Activist, Property Manager, Chefs, Self Help Advocates, therapists and so many more talented and insightful women and men.
Jackie has worked in the broadcasting industry for over four decades. She has interviewed many fascinating people including musicians, celebrities, authors, activists, entrepreneurs, politicians and more.
A big thank you goes to Ricky Soto, NYC based Graphic Designer, who created the logo for "Should Have Listened To My Mother".
Check out our website for more background information: https://www.jackietantillo.com/
Or more demos of what's to come at https://soundcloud.com/jackie-tantillo
Link to website and show notes: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/
Or Find SHLTMM Website here: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/
Listen wherever you find podcasts:
https://www.facebook.com/ShouldHaveListenedToMyMother
https://www.facebook.com/jackietantillo
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/shouldhavelistenedtomymother/
https://www.instagram.com/jackietantillo7/
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-tantillo/
YOUTUBE:
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My guest, Dr. Joseph Garcia, was speaking to me from the Pacific Northwest. As he said, "I'm 15 miles south of Canada and 6 miles in from the water (Pacific Ocean)."
Emma was born and raised in Alabama. She moved up North to Milwaukee and started her family in her 40's. Joseph is so proud of all his mom's accomplishments and is overwhelmed at times by the number of lives she touched. One of the things that impressed Joseph the most, is that "I never saw my mother get angry, ever in my life." She was sure to never raise her voice at home, because the look of disappointment was way more effective than any shouting could possibly be.
"Son, you're going to have to do twice as much, to get half as far," was one of Emma's most memorable expressions. She was trying to prepare her mixed race adopted son for the real world. In the 1950's, it could be challenging for people of color to find a significant job to help support the family.
Apparently Joseph didn't really have any interest in school as a teen. "It wasn't as important as my social life", say's Joseph. "My mother would often say "son I know you can do better, you have to decide to do that. Then she'd walk away." My guest continues, "children of color were not directed toward the college prep courses back then. But I took advantage of shop class, etc. I learned how to build a house."
It wasn't until seeing the rest of the world that Joseph realized how special his mother was and how fortunate he was growing up.
Because Dr. Garcia was adopted and because he was mixed race, he was often bullied and teased by his classmates. HIs mom wanted to help Joseph be resilient to this intimidation so she would say to her son, "yeah you're more than one race. We picked a child who had the best qualities of all the races put together into one child." And Joseph's direct response to these pests was " "yeah my mom chose me. Your parents are stuck with you!"
To this day, my guest is still shocked by the hundreds of friends and former students came to his mother's funeral when she passed at 99 years old. "They flew in from all over the country to pay their respect. She influenced so many people."
More of Emma's expressions:
"I'll rest when I die"
"I'm too old to be polite. I'm going to tell you the truth"
"Moss doesn't grow on me and I don't want it to grow on you"
"You always have to do something before you can do something else. AND there's always somethin"
"Son, don't pick something up before you have a place to put it down-that's not just stuff, that's people, that's things in your life, that's everything"
Dr. Joseph Garcia's Books:
14 Days To Baby Sign Language
Dr. Joseph Garcia's Complete Guide To Baby Sign Language
Dr. Joseph's FingerSpelling Book
WEBSITE:
https://drjosephgarcia.com/?srsltid=AfmBOoqG2kinYPVwb4db5IiF1WF-edK-ttWiCYKK4nJ7hgYC6Upc9Mvd
https://drjosephgarcia.com/
"Should Have Listened To My Mother" is an ongoing conversation about mothers/female role models and the roles they play in our lives. Jackie's guests are open and honest and answer the question, are you who you are today because of, or in spite of, your mother and so much more. You'll be amazed at what the responses are.
Gina Kunadian wrote this 5 Star review on Apple Podcast:
SHLTMM TESTIMONIAL GINA KUNADIAN JUNE 18, 2024
“A Heartfelt and Insightful Exploration of Maternal Love”
Jackie Tantillo’s “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast is a treasure and it’s clear why it’s a 2023 People’s Choice Podcast Award Nominee. This show delves into the profound impact mother and maternal role models have on our lives through personal stories and reflections.
Each episode offers a chance to learn how different individuals have been shaped by their mothers’ actions and words. Jackie skillfully guides these conversations, revealing why guests with similar backgrounds have forged different paths.
This podcast is a collection of timeless stories that highlight the powerful role of maternal figures in our society. Whether your mother influenced you positively or you thrived despite challenges, this show resonates deeply.
I highly recommend “Should Have Listened To My Mother” Podcast for its insightful, heartfelt and enriching content.
Gina Kunadian
"Should Have Listened To My Mother" would not be possible without the generosity, sincerity and insight from my guests. In 2018/2019, in getting ready to launch my podcast, so many were willing to give their time and share their personal stories of their relationship with their mother, for better or worse and what they learned from that maternal relationship.
Some of my guests include Nationally and Internationally recognized authors, Journalists, Columbia University Professors, Health Practitioners, Scientists, Artists, Attorneys, Baritone Singer, Pulitzer Prize Winning Journalist, Activists, Freighter Sea Captain, Film Production Manager, Professor of Writing Montclair State University, Attorney and family advocate @CUNY Law; NYC First Responder/NYC Firefighter, Child and Adult Special Needs Activist, Property Manager, Chefs, Self Help Advocates, therapists and so many more talented and insightful women and men.
Jackie has worked in the broadcasting industry for over four decades. She has interviewed many fascinating people including musicians, celebrities, authors, activists, entrepreneurs, politicians and more.
A big thank you goes to Ricky Soto, NYC based Graphic Designer, who created the logo for "Should Have Listened To My Mother".
Check out our website for more background information: https://www.jackietantillo.com/
Or more demos of what's to come at https://soundcloud.com/jackie-tantillo
Link to website and show notes: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/
Or Find SHLTMM Website here: https://shltmm.simplecast.com/
Listen wherever you find podcasts:
https://www.facebook.com/ShouldHaveListenedToMyMother
https://www.facebook.com/jackietantillo
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/shouldhavelistenedtomymother/
https://www.instagram.com/jackietantillo7/
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-tantillo/
YOUTUBE:
https://www.youtube.com/@ShouldHaveListenedToMyMother