Ramia explores how limiting it is for hs to always orient our decision making towards pleasing people. Often we even neglect our own needs and desire just to get a "pat on the back" that leaves us feeeling empty and unfulfilled. He challenges us to question why we value the validation of others mlre tha creating meaning in our own lives. A live lived impressing people is a life devoid of joy, meaning and purpose. Does that sound appealing to you?