Sarah Agholor & Valarie Guagnini share their experiences of being mixed race in Jamaica, UK & USA. Exploring identity, belonging and acceptance. We discuss identity labels, views on interracial relationships, navigate the perils of ticking the appropriate box on ethnicity questionnaires and ask which descriptors are acceptable / unacceptable?  Is identifying as monoracial rather than biracial, ignoring, disowning or being ashamed of part of one's heritage?