In this episode, Toni and Kaitlyn talk about more reasons why love is not enough. Falling in love is the easy part, but did you know that all the romance movies we watched growing up failed to tell us that love really doesn't mean anything...? Dive in and hear how losing yourself in a relationship sucks, but happens, and that learning how to see your worth before you seek your worth is really important. But most importantly, remember that as you navigate these trenches, even Cinderella fell in love with someone who couldn't even remember what her face looked like.

Navigating dating in your twenties is hard enough as it is, but when you are someone who is pursuing a career, balancing friendships, and trying to make your soul happy it gets that much harder. This week Toni & Kaitlyn discuss the difficulties of dating when balancing what seems to be the equivalent of the weight of the world on their shoulders. Trying to show up authentically, while respecting peoples time can be really difficult and not everyone is ready for those conversations. The patriarchy has no place here...but maybe it'll keep us in these trenches longer than we were hoping.

The gals are still in these trenches and take a brief timeout from beach vacations and bar exam studying to dive into some hot topics requested by our users. Are we crazy to not want our partners liking, subscribing, and retweeting photos of random hot women? Maybe, but hey at least we communicate our boundaries. These two also take some time to talk about a topic that is quite personal for them - What to do when your friends and family don't like your partner? Relationships are hard enough as is, and sometimes we share a little bit too much of the bad with our loved ones. What this does can sometimes ruin the relationship, create moments of isolation, and make it hard for couples to grow...so how do we get through it? Tune in to find out.

Episode 14 takes a wild ride that neither Kaitlyn nor Toni could have expected. Diving into exes over-stepping boundaries, or wait - they weren't even an ex so even worse. Turning to first dates dos and don'ts and a question about how we express our kinks in the bedroom on a first time with our new boo. The gals are deep in these trenches, and maybe are starting to figure out why they will never leave the trenches. But who could be too sure.

The trenches stay exciting when the two girls that stay in them continue to repeat past behaviors. Although Kaitlyn encourages her gals not to reach out to her ex, she shares the story of how not once...but twice...she reached out to two different exes in hopes of...who could be too sure. The girls also talk about the stigma surrounding why we block our exes, and how to pursue moving forward even when these people used to be apart of our lives.

In this episode, Kaitlyn and Toni get a bit more serious as they discuss how to navigate mental health in relationships. Spilling your juicy stories about losing your virginity and realizing just how long they both have basically been born again virgins, these two try to bring a real perspective on more nuances found in relationships.

Welcome back to Season 2 of In the Trenches. Antonia and Kaitlyn have been busy these last three weeks as they have travelled to Mexico, Colorado, California and all the states in between to get another one of the gals married. What the girls didn't realize is that a lot of mixed emotions pop up when you are the only single ones at yet another wedding. But with all the weird emotions, we want to make space for what is this season of singleness...and while we are at it, maybe we can share a bit about how we lost our virginities. Shower talks with our moms or crying to our boyfriends about going to hell...welcome to the trenches folks.

Listen, it's 2023 and it's almost as though we are living in the millenials version of the Great Depression. Which means we can do network marketing, shake our tatas on video camera, or sell some used panties. Being single in your twenties isn't all that bad I guess...This week join Toni and Kaitlyn as they discuss their part time gigs, talk about the value of trust in relationships, and hear how Toni's life became a real life version of "John Tucker Must Die."

Toni and Kait start this episode exploring what a happy ending looks like for women. Do we ask the masseuse for one? Do they simply do their magic and expect a tip? Should we be turned on or concerned...who could be too sure. And we've all heard an R&B track that has made us just guess that intimacy with that artist would be phenomenal. But what happens when he hits you up and then fails to perform?

On this weeks episode, Toni & Kaitlyn dive into expectations around landscaping the areas that usually enjoy the trenches. Waxing, shaving, or just letting it all grow out. You do you, and while you're at it, maybe tell your partner to grow up. They also end the conversation talking about why it's important to know what you will and will not tolerate in relationships. As we navigate dating, let's maybe try to get strapped up before we dive in.