#redditstories #askreddit #aita #gentleman #etiquette #manners #decisions #judgment Summary: Individuals claimed I'm not a genuine gentleman as I declined to raise my hand during a situation that questioned my principles. Now I'm unsure if I should have stood my ground or compromised for the sake of appearances. Tags: redditstories, askreddit, reddit, aita, tifu, gentleman, etiquette, manners, decisions, judgment, compromise, principles, integrity, values, socialnorms, beliefs, conflict, behavior, controversy, peerpressure