If you've ever been the one to initiate a breakup or divorce, then you

know how easily you can be considered the "bad guy." How do you stand your ground in the face of judgement, guilt and shame?

In this solo episode, host Leilani Carrasco shares her experience as the "walkaway wife," how divorce made her a more honest person and the

permission slips everyone who is going through a divorce needs.

This episode covers topics of dishonesty in marriage, radical

self-acceptance, walkaway wives, and divorce.

Resources: The Gottman Institute www.gottman.com / Didgeridoo music for panic attacks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nN-542IYoE0