(inner)action

In this enlightening conversation, Hillary Stark, a relationship and embodiment guide, shares her insights on the importance of attunement, grounding techniques, and the role of safety in relationships. She discusses the sacred observer versus the judge, misconceptions about tantra, and the significance of intimacy and vulnerability. The dialogue emphasizes the journey of self-discovery, the power of breath, and the necessity of emotional awareness in fostering deeper connections. Stark encourages listeners to embrace their bodies, navigate triggers, and engage in self-reflection to enhance their relationships.

Fine Hilary Here:

Instagram: @stark.nkd

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Hillary Stark and Her Work

02:36 Understanding Attunement in Sessions

04:56 Grounding Techniques and Body Awareness

07:33 The Role of Safety in Relationships

10:32 The Sacred Observer vs. The Judge

13:33 Exploring Tantra and Its Misconceptions

15:52 The Importance of Intimacy and Vulnerability

18:25 C-F-I-L: See, Feel, and Hear in Relationships

21:02 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing

23:52 The Power of Breath and Presence

26:34 Navigating Triggers and Emotional Responses

29:13 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energies

32:01 The Role of Communication in Relationships

34:49 The Process of Self-Reflection and Accountability

37:35 Final Thoughts on Intimacy and Connection

n this conversation, I speak with brain integration instructor Nancy Loedy about Brain Integration or Crossinology, a specialized technique designed to improve brain function using kinesiology and muscle testing. This method supports individuals dealing with ADHD, dyslexia, anxiety, and other learning challenges. Nancy shares her journey from initial skepticism to becoming a committed practitioner, and she outlines the barriers to the broader adoption of Brain Integration —particularly the need for well-trained professionals.

We explore how cognitive improvements can occur without altering personality, and how early intervention is key, especially for children with learning difficulties. Nancy also explains the structure of her 12-hour sessions, which address both emotional and physical well-being. The conversation includes a look at how pathogens may play a role in autism spectrum disorders and the potential for meaningful, lasting changes. She emphasizes the accessibility of this approach and encourages community involvement to expand its reach and impact.

Website:  https://nancyloedy.com/

In this conversation, Vinney Tolman shares the story of his near-death experience, including the events leading up to it, his life review, and the spiritual insights that followed. He speaks about the power of breath in managing despair, the importance of inner awareness, and the journey toward understanding God and self. Topics include overcoming societal constraints, the role of psychedelics in awakening, and how ego shapes our perception. Vinney also reflects on finding the divine in daily life, the impact of expectations on joy, and the path to self-empowerment and lasting fulfillment.

Find Vinney Here:

https://livinggodslight.org

Instagram: livinggodslight

Podcast: Living Gods Light

Jon Lefrandt joins the studio for a conversation on the complexities of grief, touching on its emotional, physical, and personal impact. He shares his experience of losing his father and how it led him to create Elevia, a platform supporting grief through innovative text messaging, as well as ForGrief.com, which offers resources to help people heal and find meaning after loss. The discussion highlights the importance of human connection, the challenges of spiritual bypassing, and the often-overlooked concept of disenfranchised grief. It underscores the value of awareness, empathy, and integrating grief into daily life, encouraging listeners to embrace discomfort, cultivate emotional intelligence, and find meaning in loss.

https://www.forgrief.com/

In this episode of The Observatory Podcast, hosts Scott and LoRae Wright sit down with David Dawson for an open and reflective conversation on personal growth, self-worth, and the power of storytelling. David shares his journey of starting (inner)action, the role of vulnerability in deepening connections, and how therapy—along with unconventional tools like MDMA therapy—has shaped his perspective on healing and transformation.

They discuss the importance of presence, the courage it takes to face fears and insecurities, and the ongoing process of understanding and accepting oneself. This conversation is a thoughtful look at growth, connection, and the power of sharing our experiences.

Instagram: @inneractionpodcast

@theobservatorypod

This week on the podcast, Sariah Bastian joins as a guest to explore infidelity, betrayal trauma, and the path to healing. As a yoga therapist and neurosomatic coach, she shares personal and professional insights on rebuilding trust, self-worth, and emotional resilience. Sariah explains how infidelity isn’t just a betrayal but an energetic disruption that affects one’s wholeness. She also breaks down the Empower Her Method, which uses yoga and neurosomatic tools to support healing, along with the role of self-love, communication, and nervous system regulation. This conversation is a powerful look at personal accountability, growth, and reclaiming inner peace after betrayal.

Instagram: @sariah.bastian

In this episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming Bridger Jensen into the studio to explore the transformative power of psychedelics, particularly psilocybin, in personal growth and healing. Bridger shares his journey and the founding of Singularism, a legal psilocybin treatment center, highlighting the importance of intention, safety, and spiritual connection in these experiences. Together, we discuss emotional vulnerability, the fear of change, and the therapeutic value of even challenging psychedelic journeys. The conversation offers a thoughtful, non-dogmatic perspective on self-discovery, healing, and engaging with the divine.

Website: https://psychedelictherapyjourney.com

Instagram: @singularism.official

In Episode 9 of inner(action), Jon Ogden—educator, author of When Mormons Doubt, and co-founder of Uplift Kids—shares his insights on spirituality and navigating faith crises. Jon’s work focuses on fostering personal growth, connection, and understanding across spiritual and philosophical perspectives. He discusses parenting in a changing religious landscape, embracing wisdom from diverse traditions, and the importance of structure and warmth in spiritual practices. Jon also highlights how Uplift Kids, a values-based curriculum, nurtures children’s spiritual and emotional growth. Don’t miss this inspiring and thoughtful conversation!

Instagram: @upliftkids

website: upliftkids.org

Sharing her thoughts on self-discovery, emotional intelligence, and spirituality, Kate Strong emphasizes mental and emotional wellness, self-compassion, and learning to process emotions like anger in healthy ways. She talks about her shift from life coaching to spiritual coaching, focusing on intuition and personal empowerment.

The conversation also touches on deeper themes like generational trauma, the importance of community in the healing process, and taking radical accountability for our lives. It’s an inspiring reminder to prioritize self-care, give ourselves emotional permission, and see our growth as part of the journey rather than feeling broken.

Takeaways:

- You're not broken and you don't need to be fixed.

- Self-discovery is more important than personal development.

- We can't pour from an empty cup; self-care is essential.

- Your life is shaped by the quality of your thoughts.

- Anger can be a healthy emotion that signals the need for action.

- Men need permission to express their emotions.

- Womb healing addresses generational trauma and emotional imprints

Instagram:  @katestrongworld

Andrew Carruthers shares his journey from hairdressing to life coaching and how learning self-acceptance transformed the way he relates to others. He reflects on moving from reactive patterns to a more intentional, responsive way of being, and how coaching has shaped his path toward creating a sense of safety and connection by challenging outdated views of masculinity.

Andrew explores the idea of embodiment (living in alignment with your words and actions) and trusting intuition in personal growth, sharing insights from transformative experiences, like participating in sacred combat events. These moments pushed him to confront fear, explore compassion, and redefine strength.

This conversation explores themes of vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the journey to connect more deeply with your heart, your actions, and the relationships around you.

Instagram: @andrew.carruthers

Website: https://thejourneyist.life