What if the holidays didn’t have to look the same to matter? I’m unpacking how celebrations evolve as kids grow up, families move, and energy shifts, and why a changed plan isn’t a personal slight—it’s usually logistics meeting real life. From California gingerbread throwdowns to a Chicago December built on tea, concerts, and twinkling sidewalks, I share how I’m crafting joy across the whole month instead of pinning it on one picture-perfect day.

We get honest about the emotional weather of the season: nostalgia that warms and stings, grief for people and times we’ve lost, pressure to stage-manage magic, and the surprising relief that comes with simplifying. You’ll hear simple strategies to make the holidays yours right now—feel what you feel without letting it steer, pick one new tradition that fits your life, communicate early and kindly, and focus on meaning over menu. Imperfect moments often become the favorites, and a quiet Christmas can be just as beautiful as a crowded one.

Along the way, I talk about resilience after a hard year, why flexibility is a love language, and how a single honest boundary can reset a whole family season with grace. If you’re traveling, staying home, celebrating big, or opting out, there’s room for you here. Press play to swap guilt for clarity, pressure for presence, and nostalgia for a generous view of now. If this resonated, share it with a friend, subscribe for more, and leave a quick review—it helps others find the show and join the conversation.

What if mental toughness isn’t built on grit alone, but on small choices you can actually keep? We take a no-mystique tour through resilience with fifteen simple rules that trade hustle myths for practical habits. From a messy real estate setback to the daily debate between naps and to-do lists, we explore how clarity beats mood, rest fuels longevity, and steady reps create real confidence.

We start by reframing resistance as proof you’re doing the work, not a sign you’re broken. Then we get specific: act on what you know, not how you feel; repeat what works to avoid burnout; and think in years while acting in days so progress moves from theory to calendar. When pressure spikes, we treat emotions as signals, not instructions—useful data, not orders—and we seek discomfort just past the comfort line where growth hides. Along the way, you’ll hear why keeping promises to yourself matters more than motivation, how to detach from applause you can’t control, and how acceptance lets you steer with clearer eyes.

Breath, self-talk, and ego get their turn too. Breathe first, decide second to stop fast mistakes. Change the tone in your head to change the tone of your life. And when being right threatens connection, choose adaptation over ego. We close by celebrating quiet compounding—let them underestimate you—and by returning to the most reliable builder of confidence: finish the reps. Whether it’s sending the email or showing up to lift, brick by brick always beats waiting for a perfect mood. Hit play, grab one rule to test today, and tell us which habit you’re committing to. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find the conversation.

The terminal feels like a pressure cooker right now, but your trip doesn’t have to. We dive straight into a grounded, good-humored guide to navigating airport chaos during the shutdown with less stress and more control. From the first moments of packing to the last gate change, we map out what actually helps: planning time you’ll be grateful for later, dialing in your tech and alerts, and carrying yourself with calm, clear energy.

We start with the basics people skip when they’re rushed: checking TSA wait times, arriving early enough to breathe, and prepping for security so you glide instead of scramble. Then we get into the power moves: downloading entertainment and meditation before you leave the house, setting airline app notifications and texts to beat the loudspeaker, and keeping a slim power bank on hand so a dead phone never becomes a travel crisis. Snacks become strategy, hydration gets smarter with electrolytes, and a small stash of coffee gift cards turns gratitude into smoother interactions with frontline staff who are keeping airports moving under heavy strain.

Packing lighter is its own superpower. Carry-on only reduces risk, hassle, and the odds your trip gets derailed. We talk capsule choices, quick-dry layers, and the mindset shift from “just in case” to “just enough.” And because airports are full of people at their limit, we practice polite assertiveness: a calm “I believe I was next” works better than a blowup every time. Along the way, we share stories from real flights, reminders to keep perspective when plans bend, and a simple rule that upgrades every journey: be the kind traveler others remember for the right reasons.

If you’re staring down long lines, blinking delay boards, and the creeping worry that your patience won’t last, this is your toolkit. Listen for practical steps you can use today, share it with a friend who’s flying soon, and help us spread calmer, kinder travel. Subscribe, leave a quick review, and tell us your must-pack sanity saver—we’ll feature our favorites next week.

Want a simple, human way to feel better after 50 without spending a fortune or living at the gym? We break down six daily habits that actually stick: prunes for bone health, coffee timed for focus and sleep, functional strength you can do with groceries or grandkids, flossing that protects your heart and brain, non-negotiable health screenings, and morning light that sets your body clock. No scare tactics, just clear steps and a few hard-won lessons from real life.

We start with the small wins that compound. Prunes deliver vitamin K and anti-inflammatory benefits in a snack you can toss into yogurt or a smoothie. Coffee gets a glow-up too—enjoy the polyphenols and mental boost early in the day, paired with a glass of water up front and a firm cutoff before mid-afternoon to guard your sleep. On movement, we champion strength you’ll actually use: carry both bags, practice getting up from the floor, or try water aerobics for joint-friendly resistance that keeps bones and muscles working. It’s not about numbers—it’s about confidence and balance that make everyday life easier.

We connect mouth and body by making flossing effortless: stash picks where you relax or try a water flosser recommended by dental pros. Then we get serious about screenings. Mammograms, bone scans, and colon checks save lives, and the easiest path is to book them like meetings you won’t cancel. Finally, a brisk morning walk with daylight anchors circadian rhythm, lifts mood, and supports metabolism. To make it all sustainable, pick just one habit for the next seven days, tell a friend, and track it. When you slip, restart the next day—no drama, just progress.

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Enjoy this best-of episode while I'm in Ireland. A Halloween hello turns into a lively tour of real-life wins, from Portland nostalgia and a quiet downtown morning to a $1.25 fountain Diet Coke that resets a daily routine. We open up about family—hard seasons, safety found, and the joy of everyone coming back together—then pivot into the practical heartbeat of the show: how to make Costco work when you’re two people living in a small Chicago condo.

Storage shapes strategy, so we walk through creating a dedicated “Costco shelf,” what actually earns space, and what quietly drains your budget. Expect candor and a little humor as we sort the smart buys from the duds: why pre-sliced bagels freeze perfectly, how USDA Prime pot roast becomes three easy dinners, when soda flats lose to grocery promos, and where mega bottles and mega painkiller tubs are more risk than reward. We clear up the food court membership myth, question whether tires are really a deal, and draw firm lines on perishables to avoid food waste. If you’ve ever stood under those warehouse lights wondering whether you’ll use two pounds of garlic, this is for you.

The highlight is a time-saving rotisserie chicken system that turns Costco’s pre-pulled meat into fast weeknight wins. Pair that with quality stock and an Instapot and you’ve got a soup engine for winter—lemon orzo chicken that tastes slow-simmered in under 30 minutes, plus easy add-ins for salads, bowls, and quesadillas. Along the way we trade a few laughs about head-to-toe Costco outfits, admit which aisles still tempt us during the holidays, and share a simple rule that keeps carts—and closets—sane: list first, then shop.

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Enjoy this Best of Episode while I wander through Ireland. Ever wonder how different your life would look if you couldn’t open a bank account without someone else’s signature? We go from a fresh start in a Chicago high-rise to the surprising truth that U.S. women only gained equal access to credit in the 1970s—and why that history still shapes daily choices. I share the joy of downsizing, finding a tight-knit “pool pals” community, and rebuilding health, then connect that momentum to money power: credit as trust, autonomy, and safety.

We rewind to my first job at Sears Credit Central, paper applications and all, and trace the path from metal charge plates to Diners Club, AmEx, and MasterCard. Along the way, I break down how high-interest debt quietly taxes your future, when rewards actually make sense, and simple guardrails that keep you in control: pay in full, know your rates, automate savings, and check your credit reports. If you’re partnered, you’ll hear a candid take on shared finances—how to avoid silent drift or endless fights, and why every woman needs accounts in her own name, documented access, and a clear will and beneficiaries.

This debut sets the tone for what’s ahead: short, smart, and grounded in real life. We’ll widen the lens beyond aging to money, relationships, and the choices that let us live lighter and stronger. If you’ve got a story, expertise, or a question you want explored, I want to hear it. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a boost of financial confidence, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show. What money habit changed your sense of freedom?

Hot listings, hotter tempers, and a clock we didn’t set—this is the real story of a condo deal that should’ve been simple and turned into a master class in boundaries. We lay out the exact criteria we were chasing (same building, southeast corner, in-unit laundry), the tight timeline we couldn’t ignore, and the moment a building insider pushed urgency over alignment. The pressure campaign came with “inside info,” midnight pings, and a narrative that didn’t account for travel, cash flow, or the work required to convert our current place to a short-term rental. When a reasonable ask for a later close was dismissed, we faced the choice buyers dread: squeeze our lives into someone else’s deadline or walk.

We walked. No drama on our end, no name-calling, just a line in the sand: if the date doesn’t work, the deal doesn’t work. The reactions told us everything about incentives, representation, and how easily “hot market” becomes a cudgel. Along the way, we spotlight the people who actually lowered the temperature—our lender and attorney—and the tools that keep you sane: clear must-haves, non-negotiable logistics, and a budget that leaves room to breathe. If you’ve ever felt rushed into an offer, this conversation gives you language, strategy, and permission to slow the game down. You’ll hear how to spot red flags, set closing terms that match your life, and recognize when sunk-cost bias is steering the ship.

There’s a quieter truth underneath the noise: not every upgrade is an upgrade. At a certain stage, joy, timing, and risk tolerance matter more than square footage. We still love our current home, we’ll keep our financing ready, and we’ll move only when the math and the moment align. If you’re navigating real estate in a competitive market—or recovering from a deal that blew up—you’ll find practical cues, a few laughs, and a reminder that saying no is a power move. If this resonated, subscribe, leave a review, and share your own real estate horror stories with us—we might read them on a future show.

Coffee, chairs, and the courage to tell the truth—this is a ground-level tour of Alcoholics Anonymous from someone 37 years sober who still believes in the power of a room. We get honest about what AA is and isn’t, why it works without a CEO or a headquarters, and how the program quietly scales across cities, cruise ships, and late-night Zoom links. If you’ve wondered whether AA is a cult, too religious, or only for people who have lost everything, you’ll hear straightforward answers and real-world context.

We walk through AA’s self-support model—pass the hat, pay the rent, buy the coffee—and why that simplicity builds trust. You’ll hear how meetings actually run, the difference between open and closed formats, and why speaker nights can feel like live theater with stakes. We translate the 12 steps into plain English you can act on today: admit the problem, find a power greater than yourself, hand over control, take inventory, make amends, keep checking yourself, stay connected, and pay it forward. Along the way, we talk sponsors (how to pick one, why you can switch), anonymity as a promise that protects the room, and the early momentum builder known as “90 meetings in 90 days.”

This conversation also widens the lens: even if alcohol isn’t your issue, the same tools can help with compulsion in other forms—shopping, screens, or anything that runs your life when you’re not looking. You don’t need a dramatic rock bottom to start; you just need a moment of clarity and a chair to sit in. Worst case, you leave with coffee and a story. Best case, you leave with a path. If this helped, follow the show, share it with someone who might need it, and leave a quick review so more people can find their way to a meeting.

Thirty-seven years of sobriety doesn't come with a medal ceremony or a balloon drop, but it does come with a story worth telling. This deeply personal episode pulls back the curtain on a part of my life many of you might never have guessed existed.

Born into a family with alcoholism running through its veins, my journey with alcohol began at just 12 years old with a screwdriver mixed by my mother at a New Year's gathering. Though I wasn't a teenage drinker, everything changed when I turned 21. From that point forward, I never drank "normally" – there was no such thing as just one glass of wine or a single cocktail. What followed were seven progressively darker years that included a failed marriage, dangerous relationships, and moments where I would check my car for dents in the morning, terrified I might have hit someone during a blackout.

My rock bottom didn't look like losing everything – I still had a job and had avoided a DUI – but I knew those consequences were just around the corner. On January 11, 1988, after my final blackout, I found my way to Alcoholics Anonymous. In the 80s, AA was experiencing its first wave of young people joining what had previously been dominated by older men. We created our own meetings with atmospheres that resonated with us – candlelight gatherings, speaker meetings, dances, and even sober bowling leagues where I would eventually meet my husband Craig.

Sobriety has taught me that life is messy, hard, ridiculous, and beautiful – but at least now I'm awake for all of it. If you're struggling with alcohol, please know there's a better life waiting for you. Those who came before were there for me, and now it's my responsibility to be there for the next generation. You can find AA meetings online or call their hotline. Stop drinking today – you won't regret it. But if you continue, I can promise the regrets will pile up, along with the losses.

Have you found yourself questioning your relationship with alcohol? Reach out for help today – your future self will thank you for it.

Remember when flying was glamorous? When airlines like TWA and PSA offered generous legroom and complimentary everything? Those days are long gone, replaced by what can only be described as a human endurance test designed to push the limits of our collective patience.

Modern airports have become psychological experiments where common sense goes to die. From TSA lines where people act perpetually surprised by procedures established two decades ago, to passengers who bring steamer trunks as "carry-ons" and seem genuinely shocked when told they won't fit overhead. The bewildering behaviors extend to premature boarding lines, armrest territorial disputes, and the dreaded "recliner bullies" who transform your personal space the moment wheels leave the ground.

My travel philosophy has always been to lead with kindness, especially toward airline staff who deal with the worst of humanity daily. This approach has consistently proven more effective than my husband's "I deserve" attitude that comes from millions of miles flown. When a flight attendant once spilled an entire bottle of red wine down my white shirt, I laughed it off while a passenger who received merely a splash launched into a tirade. Sometimes being the voice of reason in these situations is necessary—your vacation status doesn't grant you royal treatment.

The "loud American" stereotype exists for a reason, and it's cringeworthy to witness fellow countrymen demanding Starbucks in Rome rather than embracing local customs. Instagram travelers who block historical landmarks for the perfect staged shot represent a particularly modern travel phenomenon. My personal rule? I never expect others to pause for my photos, and I don't alter my path for theirs.

How do we maintain sanity while navigating this new travel landscape? Pack your patience alongside your passport, invest in quality noise-canceling headphones, and lower your expectations. Most importantly, remember that you're not the only one trying to get from point A to point B safely. While travel may have lost its golden age glamour, it still fulfills its most fundamental purpose: getting us out of our zip codes and showing us new perspectives. Share your worst travel experiences with me at [email protected]—because sometimes laughing about it is the best therapy of all.