inside OUT with Jojo Cottle

Codependency doesn’t always show up loud. Sometimes it’s a quiet whisper telling you to dim your light so you don’t outshine someone. This week I’m getting honest about how I used to lose myself in relationships. I skipped jeans I loved because a boyfriend didn’t like them, and when it ended I didn’t know what to do on a Friday night. I share why I’ve spent almost two years building a life that’s fully mine. We get into the signs of codependency, the difference between a leaf in a hurricane and a rooted tree, and what real partnership looks like when two whole people choose each other. To close, I give you journal prompts to get MESy with mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Jojo is bringing this one back because it’s one of those episodes that hits different every time you hear it. We all know the obvious relationship ruiners, like lying and cheating. But what about the quiet ones? These are the patterns that slowly poison a connection without either person noticing, in romance, friendships, family, even at work. In this episode, Jojo names four of them, and she raises her hand on every single one. She shares personal stories she’s never told on the show before, including one she’s still a little embarrassed about. She also unpacks why “you complete me” might be one of the most damaging things we’ve been taught about love, and tells the story of the one word she banned from a relationship on the spot. Once you see these patterns, you can’t unsee them. And that’s where the real work begins. As always, Jojo gets MESy: mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Plus there’s homework, so come ready to get honest with yourself.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Constant contact isn’t connection. Jojo breaks down attention vs. intention, why we reach out from lack, and how sitting in the silence can rewire your relationships and your sense of worth.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Every city is “the worst city to date in.” But is it the city, or how we’re showing up?This week Jojo breaks down why the flashy first date backfires, why a $5 coffee and a walk will tell you more than a $400 dinner, and why connection starts with asking questions and actually listening. Men, women, this one’s for both of you.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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We talk a lot about setting boundaries, but what about keeping them? In this episode of Inside Out, Jojo gets honest about the boundaries she sets with herself and others, where they slip, and the uncomfortable question that changed how she sees the whole thing. From late-night scrolling to the family questions that never stop to the person who just won't take the hint, this one might hit a little close to home. If you've ever felt like your "no" isn't landing, or like you keep giving yourself away, press play.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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In this throw back solo episode, Jojo gets MESy about love, and why so many relationships crumble when the foundation was never built. She unpacks how instant gratification culture pushes us to rush into intimacy, and how slowing down to truly know and integrate a partner creates connection that lasts. 

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Jojo shares her personal journey through mental, emotional, and spiritual growth, inviting listeners to engage and shape future content based on their interests.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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Inner child and relational therapist Yats returns to unpack masculine and feminine energy: why giving and receiving get so tangled between men and women, where our blocks to receiving love actually come from, and how the subconscious mind decides who we attract.

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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In this episode, Jojo sits down with relationship and inner child therapist Yats to explore the deep roots of relationship dynamics, inner child healing, and the balance of masculinity and femininity. They discuss how childhood experiences shape adult relationships and practical ways to foster emotional safety and authenticity.

Connect with Yats on Instagram: @theinneryats

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This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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How do you know if it's intuition or overthinking? Intuitive soul guide Tania Ho on gut feelings, energy leaks, sensitivity as a superpower & soul-led living.

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Send me a MESsage :)

This podcast explores love, dating advice, dating apps, manifestation, attachment styles, relationships, codependency, spirituality, dating, anxious attachment, law of attraction, self-sabotage, mindset, relationship coaching, heartbreak, people pleasing, self-love, toxic relationships, online dating, healthy relationships, self-worth, personal growth, relationship advice, fear of abandonment, relationship boundaries, secure attachment, inner work, single women, feminine energy, relationship anxiety, codependent relationships, finding love, emotionally unavailable men, emotional availability, manifesting love, and limiting beliefs, empowering women to heal, grow, embrace self-worth, and create healthy, fulfilling relationships.

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