You've seen the Red Frogs at Schoolies, festivals and uni O-Week - the crew handing out lollies, walking people home, being the calm in the chaos. You might even know that Taylor Swift's team has called them in for support, or that Allen's donates 24 tonnes of frogs to the cause. What you don't see is the story behind one of the people who's helped build it and why he spends his life helping teens!
In this episode, Karl Faase sits down with Steve Davies, whose childhood was, in his own words, a "trainwreck life." Steve speaks with raw honesty about a home marked by violence and fear, the grief of losing the men who made him feel safe, the discovery that his biological father had taken his own life, and the years he spent trying to numb a broken heart. It's also a story of an almost unthinkable forgiveness - of a stepfather, a mother, and ultimately himself! What's remarkable is that it was a Bible courageously thrown across a room that set all of this in motion. This is a powerful conversation about pain, faith, and what it really takes to re-build a life after hurt.
Listener note: this episode discusses childhood abuse, family violence and suicide. Please take care while listening.
Steve Davies is the General Manager of Red Frogs Australia - a national charity working to safeguard a generation by providing peer-to-peer support. He has also worked in business, ministry and politics.
Red Frogs today: 27 years on, from Schoolies and O-Week to concerts - plus the Taylor Swift call and Allen's 24-tonne lolly donationA childhood of conflict, gambling and never feeling safeLosing his father, then his beloved "Pop" and retreating into himselfLonging for a dad when everyone else had oneStepfather Bob: favouritism, rage, violence, and being a "second-class son"Praying in a cupboard and the dark turn into becoming a bullyDiscovering his biological father had died by suicideSelf-destruction at 17, and fleeing to Townsville after a near-fatal fightA Bible thrown at him, reading Mark then John, and "Father, forgive them"2am at a church door: "Lord, if you're real…" and a picture of his heart being mended"I forgive you" - the call to Bob, Bob's conversion, and Steve baptising himOfficiating Bob's funeral; forgiving his motherHis own marriage nearly ending and a dog's death that unlocked a buried memoryHow Schoolies went from the "wild west" to far safer, and Red Frogs' work with the QLD GovernmentOlive Tree Media: www.olivetreemedia.com.au
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