As soon as I saw her I knew I had to have her! These instant connection encounters can definitely be fun but can they be dangerous as well? Dating will present you with multiple opportunities to be as loose as you want to be. At some point you have to look at yourself and see if where you are right now aligns with where you see yourself going. Being a single man can be fun but, it also comes with the responsibility of knowing myself and being accountable for my growth as a man. So even though these instant connections are fun at some point I had to ask are they worth it? Can having multiple instant connections make you fear being in a relationship, because any sign of struggle in a relationship you know you can step out and have something "magical" with someone else. But what happens when the magic is over? Was a 15 minute magic trick even worth the chase?