In this insightful episode of the Tarbiyah Project podcast, we delve into the art of intentional parenting. In this multi-part podcast, you will discover how to nurture your child's faith, character, and connection to Allah through purposeful actions and mindful guidance.

If you take away just 3 things from this episode:

1. Parenting is always a choice—intentional or unintentional. Even when we “just go with the flow,” that’s still a choice. Prioritizing work, busyness, or filling our kids’ schedules without deeper reflection often leads to reactive parenting.

2. We don’t control outcomes, but we are accountable for effort. Parents can’t guarantee how their children will turn out, but we are fully accountable before Allah for the love, discipline, and presence we put in. Control is an illusion—what we truly have is influence.

3. Without working on yourself, there is no parenting. Children mirror our emotional availability, self-awareness, and connection. If we don’t heal, grow, and reflect, we end up passing unresolved struggles forward.

Self-work is the foundation of intentional parenting. Whether you're a new parent or seeking to strengthen your parenting approach, this episode offers valuable insights to help you raise children who are grounded in faith and strong in character.