When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s hard not to feel that you are a victim. well people around you and your immediate community can be weird to you, they can hurt and make you crazy about the whole thing.  The reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely conscious of this process. The question for the single person out there looking for love is: what are the internal challenges I need to face?