Allie, Evan, Kristina, and Max discuss I’m Afraid of Men and what’s up, exactly, with masculinity (0:46); the myth of the good man (6:01); it’s not like people are not dating incels because they’re not ripped, they’re not dating incels because they hate women (12:30); Cruise, Swayze, Keanu (14:10); Vivek Shraya joins the conversation (17:56); being enlisted into and resisting masculinity (19:15); good is a nebulous standard (22:52); on the bus with the communicative jock (27:48); you had me at hello (36:33)