Listen to Leanne Townsend (https://leannetownsend.ca/).

Her motto is mindful divorce since when you do something mindful you do it intelligently!

Now don´t get sidetracked thinking mindful is weak, we did talk about having friends who are able to just listen, and without judgment be there for you. To be able to be "real" and not always "positively positive", as divorce is a stressful phase in one´s life.

And her guide through when faced with fears like "How much money will I have after the divorce?" "How will that work out with the kids?" is knowledge is power.

1. Get the knowledge