This is a great conversation on what is the purpose of all the hard stuff anyway. It turns out YES! there is a reason, to develop our character. 

Gabby and Ryan discuss some of the experiences that have shaped their lives and share the process and lessons learned. Here is Dr. Adamczyk profile on Psychology today

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/ryan-robert-adamczyk-charlotte-nc/439038#endorsements

Dr Adamczyk articles at the Jung Centre for applied studies

https://appliedjung.com/peter-pan-complex/