In this episode of Lead the Home, Chase and Kaylee open up about one of the most difficult and defining struggles in their marriage: intimacy.

From their wedding night to years of frustration, miscommunication, rejection, and shame—this conversation walks through the reality many couples face but few talk about.

They unpack:

• Why men often outsource intimacy (pornography, lust, avoidance)

• Why women may withdraw from intimacy

• How past wounds, expectations, and fear shape marriage dynamics

• The role of godly masculinity vs. boyish behavior

• How obedience to God transformed their relationship

• The power of James 5:16 – confession and healing

• What it actually looks like to flee sexual sin and pursue real intimacy

This episode is not about perfection.

It’s about repentance, growth, and becoming the man and woman God calls you to be—together.