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What happens when the right person comes along after you've given up on dating apps? Anu returns to the Relationship Method podcast with a refreshing love story that defies modern dating norms. From meeting through mutual friends to consciously taking things slow, she shares how her current relationship differs from past dating experiences.

The conversation takes us through Anu's journey of finding someone who respects her boundaries and understands the delicate balance of introducing children into a new relationship. Unlike many modern connections built on physical attraction first, Anu explains why choosing celibacy until establishing a deeper connection has actually strengthened their bond. Her partner's respect for this decision stands out as one of many green flags she's noticed—a stark contrast to her previous dating experiences with a Navy serviceman and others who weren't ultimately compatible.

Between heartfelt relationship insights, Anu shares the hilarious story of getting banned from a local nightclub after defending a friend that escalated into a "squabble" during an early outing with her now-boyfriend. Rather than being deterred by witnessing this chaotic side of her, he stuck around—further confirming she'd found someone worth investing in. The episode closes with powerful advice about shooting your shot, being authentic, and communicating clearly about relationship boundaries: "You can't get mad at somebody for acting a certain way if you don't set those boundaries with them."

Ready to rethink your approach to relationships? Listen now and discover why sometimes the best connections happen when you stop playing games and start being genuine. Follow Anu on Instagram and TikTok to continue following her refreshingly honest relationship journey.

• Taking relationships slow can lead to deeper connections
• Meeting someone organically through friends versus dating apps
• Introducing children to a new partner requires careful consideration
• Setting clear boundaries early in relationships avoids misunderstandings
• Finding someone who respects your decision to be celibate initially is a green flag
• The story behind getting "86'd" from a nightclub after defending a friend
• Why being authentic matters more than playing games
• Dating multiple people is fine if everyone understands the situation
• Communication is key to avoiding misunderstandings in relationships
• When to "shoot your shot" and how to handle rejection