Join us in this candid and heartfelt episode as we sit down with Horror Daddy J to explore his journey through kink, sexuality, and self-discovery. Growing up with early exposure to his father's porn stash, he’s always been attuned to his desires.  Raised in a conservative, Christian environment, he reflects on how education and experience have helped him embrace a vibrant, rainbow-colored view of sexuality and love.  He shares practical advice like asking specific safety questions and taking classes to better understand the risks involved.

We share our love story, from a mysterious Facebook friend request, long-distance connection, and first in-person meeting at a kink event. With stories of memorable scenes: fire play, impact play, and more, he dispels the myths often glamorized by media, reminding listeners that BDSM requires knowledge, respect, and consent. Talking openly about his own late-diagnosis of autism, Horror Daddy J details how he feels embraced for his true self within the kink community. An advocate for self-love and authenticity, he encourages listeners to reject societal expectations of the “perfect” life and instead embrace their true desires. Additionally, he shares how cannabis has become an essential tool for reducing anxiety, managing pain, and enhancing intimacy. Wrapping up, the conversation touches on personal growth, mental health, and creative pursuits . 

Key Topics Covered:

• How we met and managed long distance
• Early influences on sexuality and desire
• Diversity and inclusion within the kink community
• Navigating neurodivergence, masking, and sensory needs
• Memorable kink scenes: fire play, impact, urethral sounding, and more
• Aftercare practices: cuddles, debriefs, and cannabis use
• Myths about cannabis and its benefits for stress and intimacy
• Challenging societal expectations and embracing authentic self-expression
• Designing custom BDSM gear and exploring creative kink pursuits

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