We’re all made for connection—but connection doesn’t magically happen. It takes investment. And the real question is: Are you investing in the right company?

This week, we’re unpacking mutual effort in relationships of all kinds—romantic, friendships, faith community, and family. We talk about what it looks like to pour into people who pour back… and how to lovingly step away when the effort isn’t mutual.

Because singlehood isn’t a waiting room—it’s a season of forming the relationships that shape your life.

In this episode, we chat about:

• What mutual effort looks like in romantic relationships
• How to maintain friendships through different life stages
• The role of faith and consistency in forming meaningful community
• Green flags that tell you a relationship is worth investing in
• Red flags that signal emotional drain, imbalance, or misalignment
• When friendships naturally evolve, change, or dissolve—and why that’s okay
• Setting boundaries that protect your peace & your heart

Plus, our Single Serving segment — one hot take, one small joy, one petty complaint — all in under two minutes.

GREEN FLAGS

✅ Meaningful conversations✅ Dedicated time✅ Support & encouragement✅ Meeting halfway✅ Showing up when it matters

RED FLAGS

🚩 Lack of effort🚩 Constant flaking (especially without communication)🚩 Emotional manipulation🚩 Inconsistent communication🚩 Unable to be vulnerable🚩 Not celebrating what’s important to you

TAKEAWAY

Relationships are two-way streets.You are allowed to set the standard for the kind of energy you give and receive.Pay attention. Trust yourself. Invest wisely.

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