Your Self-Worth Becomes Your Legacy

You're teaching your children that a woman's worth comes from her productivity. That being needed equals being valuable. That rest is selfish. That saying no is failure.

And you don't even realize you're doing it.

Every family gathering where you exhaust yourself. Every moment you make yourself smaller. Every time you apologize for taking up space. Your children are watching—and learning the WRONG lesson about what women deserve.

The value you claim (or deny) for yourself today becomes the legacy your children carry for generations. This episode reveals the hidden belief system keeping you stuck, the devastating cost of continuing it, and the ONE decision you can make today to change your legacy forever.

Not for the faint of heart. Only for moms ready to stop performing and start living.

We challenge the belief that a woman’s value is earned through productivity and being needed, and show how that belief becomes a legacy children absorb. A personal turning point leads to five truths about inherent worth and a practical path to choose a new legacy with one decision today.

• hidden worth equation that ties value to doing
• how children learn self-worth by watching us
• signs of conditional worth: over-apology, compulsive yes, guilt for rest
• the move-and-crisis story that exposed emptiness
• five truths: inherent worth, constancy, acceptance, self-assigned value, modeling
• practical shifts: boundaries, rest, kinder self-talk, needs included
• one worth-based decision to start change today

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