This week, Sofia and Adri dive into the viral Vogue article everyone’s been sending to the group chat: “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing?” 👀 From “boyfriendland” (aka when your whole personality becomes your relationship) to cringe couple posts, we’re breaking down what’s actually embarrassing — hint: it’s not being single, it’s being in a situationship with a man-child.

They unpack the difference between healthy love and codependent chaos, why self-love keeps you out of “pick-me” energy, and how to keep your friendships thriving even when you’re boo’d up. Because babe… your relationship should add to your sparkle, not dim it. ✨

💌 Spoiler alert: singlehood is having a rebrand — and she’s thriving.

TAKEAWAYS

💋 “Boyfriendland” is real — don’t lose your main character energy in someone else’s storyline

💋 Being single isn’t embarrassing… settling is

💋 Healthy love = communication, individuality, and a little mystery

💋 Your girlfriends are your soulmates too — don’t ghost them for a man

💋 Post your joy, not your codependency

The HOT GIRL HOTLINE aka your hotline to healing is open 🔥 Ask your juiciest love, life, or glow-up Qs now 📞💋https://lovergirlevolving.com/pages/hot-girl-hotline 

KEYWORDS

transitions, community, dating, relationships, self-love, singlehood, Austin, modern dating, dating apps, personal growth, friendships, social media, empowerment, Vogue