I drank the Kool Aid. Kids need to be obedient. Nobody liked the word. (Obedience) Sounded too much like dog training. Call it political correctness I guess, but I changed from obedience to compliance. Well kids need to obey the person in charge and they will blame their parents and teachers down the road when things don't go quite the way they expected them to as adults. This is an overwhelming topic for me. Read more about it on The Bully Proof Classroom website. Tell your friends to listen in as well. Everybody needs to hear what happens when kids refuse to obey. Take 

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