(I think I stumbled on the answer-- and it's not what you expect).
This question has plagued humanity.
I feel like I've solved it. 
There's one twist I mention in this transmission that is seldom spoken about-- but will be the DETERMINING factor if you are to have any say in how your life (in relationships and health and abundance) goes from this point forward.
This post might trigger you-- but are you willing to share what comes up?

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