Are you with someone with whom you have great chemistry, but you're trying to figure out if this the real deal?  Are you wondering if this is the kind of love that can last a lifetime or if you are more in lust than real love? 

The truth on this matter (and all others) will set you free from a future of misery, but you've got to be willing to tell yourself that truth and accept that truth if you want what is in the best interest of your future self. 

This podcast, as well as the podcast entitled 18 Things You Can Do When Men Make You Want To Be Shortsighted, may be useful on practical level also for those who are certain they have found the one they're going to spend the rest of their life with, but are looking for some good self-talk to make it to the wedding date so that you both can have everything to look forward to at your honeymoon.  You are writing a beautiful story of love and you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you (Philippians 4:13).  This podcast is in support of your goal.