Is it self-awareness or self-criticism?

We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.

Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.

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Dating for potential can mean looking for someone who could potentially be a good match, but not yet is. The goal of dating is to identify potential, explore it, and confirm it.  It can lead to people choosing for incompatible relationships, ignoring red flags, and giving too much time to someone who isn't right for them. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing it!  This week, I'm talking about dating for potential.  Which is not only a sabotage but can really hurt you and your relationships. Join the Date Like You Mean It Workshop! SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Sabotage Series: Why Dating for Potential Makes You An Asshole

New podcast is up and it is so juicy with good info that this a two parter! If you missed part one go listen first. Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love. I even made you this PDF to download so you don't forget them! Download it here. Today I breakdown 6-10 and they are GOOD!   

Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines for Dating & Relationships - Part 2

New episode is up and it is so juicy with good info there is going to be a part 2 next week! Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills. Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love. Today I breakdown 1-5 and they are GOOD! Resources from the episode: Very Well Mind Article on Self-Sabotage Mind Body Green Article SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines For Dating & Relationships -  Part 1

This week I am sharing the intro episode of my brand new podcast Rom-com Rescue!  A smart & fun podcast from Couples Therapist, Dr. Isabelle Morley & myself  where we teach life lessons from your favorite rom-coms.  We are kicking off the podcast with an intro episode to let you know who we are, our own personal love stories, & why we are doing this podcast. Check out the show, transcriptions, shownotes, resources, & more episodes at romcomrescue.com

Introducing the Rom-Com Rescue Podcast!

Check out my NEW "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! GO here. We are at the tenth (and final) episode of a NEW Season on the podcast called "Common Dating Questions through a Modern & Healthy Perspective." and I am talking about the immature beliefs and mindsets we can get stuck on and keeps us single. Today I share my personal thoughts, stories, and more! I breakdown:   Basic helpful mindsets when you are meeting new people My 3 tier approach to getting back out & meeting people easily & safely. My favorite ways for people to meet other singles right now.   SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE! Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life! Follow Kira & the show on Instagram:  Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com Instagram: @kirasabin Facebook: @reinventingdating TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

Is it self-awareness or self-criticism?

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