In the world of BDSM and kink, the lines between personal pleasure and partnership fidelity can sometimes blur. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that stirs up plenty of controversy: Is playing with a professional Dom considered cheating? Purity opens up about her encounters with married subs who navigate the delicate balance of satisfying their kinks while remaining faithful to their partners.

So, what exactly constitutes cheating? As everyone has their own set of relationship rules, identifying what crosses the line can be complex. We'll explore how to determine if you're cheating, based on varying definitions and relationship dynamics.

Moreover, can someone engage with a Dom or play partner without catching feelings? It's a common fear among married or partnered individuals stepping into play or ethically non-monogamous (ENM) relationships. We'll discuss the emotional risks and how to manage them.

But not all strategies for fulfilling your desires are created equal. We'll look at some approaches that might seem good on paper but fail in practice, especially when your significant other isn't into the same things. Is constantly seeking new, one-time play partners a healthy way to manage your needs? Or does it lead to its own set of problems?

Wrapping up, we'll guide you through the right way to satisfy your kinks when your partner isn’t on board, ensuring respect and consent are never compromised. Join us as we unpack these thorny issues, aiming to shed light on a path that keeps relationships intact while honoring personal desires.

IN THIS EPISODE

• Purity shares her story of being approached by married subs looking to satisfy their kinks without cheating on their wives.
• What is cheating?
• How to know if you're cheating when everyone has different rules.
• Is it possible to play with a Dom or play partner without developing feelings for them?
• Why married/partnered people are scared of developing feelings for play or ENM partners - and how to deal with it.
• Bad strategies for satisfying your kinks when your partner isn't into the same things as you.
• Is always looking for new, one-time play partners healthy?
• The right way to satisfy your kinks when you're partner isn't on board.

3 VALUE BOMBS

• Everyone has a different definition of cheating. Discuss boundaries with your partner before engaging with new people. And if you ever feel like you're cheating, you probably are.
• Developing feelings for other people, including play partners, is natural. It's part of being human. Expect it to happen, but don't make it mean anything about this new relationships. You can have feelings for someone new without it hurting your marriage or primary relationship.
• Your kinks are never going away. The sooner you open up to your partner, the sooner you can create a fully satisfying relationship for everyone involved.

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