Revenge a dirty word to some a way of life for others? For some people revenge is very necessary. I remember growing up my mom use to tell me don't let anyone punk you, if they hit you hit em back. The Bible says vengeance is mine saith the Lord. Most of the time you may let certain stuff slide when a person has wronged you but not all the time. Some people when they let things slide later on they regret they did.  Question is revenge necessary to feel whole again?