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In this episode, we explore the unique fulfillment sex provides and whether it’s a want or a need. Can we ever thrive without it? We break down the difference between lust and eros, the role of intimacy in sex, and whether sex can ever be just sex—is casual sex ever truly casual? We also discuss the challenges couples face in sexual fulfillment and when sex reaches its greatest potential in a relationship.

00:00 Intro

02:32 Is sex a want or a need?

04:22 Is life all about pleasure or is there more?

11:47 When sex becomes necessary

17:20 Intimacy - the missing piece of the sex puzzle

18:28 Which stage of a relationship is sex the best?

21:11 Is casual sex ever just sex?

26:53 Lust vs. Eros

35:42 The orgasm gap - why we're not having great sex

39:12  Men's insecurities with receiving feedback on sex

43:49 Why the Bible uses the word "knew" for sex

44:48 Can sex toys ever be a hindrance?

46:21 The problem with p*rn and other explicit content

58:44 Closing thoughts on intimacy