Is She Using You As An ATM?

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We all hear the term “gold digger” and it basically means a female who is only interested in you because of the money you make. Gold diggers aren’t interested in dudes whose net worth isn’t at or around at least 7 figures and they’re not interested in short term relationships with wealthy men. These girls are looking to cash out early and get with a rich guy long term.

Now I lived in Vegas for almost 9 years and I’ve been around, seen, and hung out with every level of “gold digger” there is out there. I’ve also had extensive conversations with men who have experience with a lot of these girls, I’m talkin’ night club owners, bouncers, business owners, a top level Vegas D.J. I became pretty good friends with, I’ve hung out with strip club owners, high level drug dealers, I mean I’ve talked to a lot of these dudes and gold digging females is almost always a topic of conversation when we’re sittin’ around shootin’ the shit.

Anyway, one thing that became very clear to me is that depending on their goals, not all these females have the same motivations. So before we get started here, lemme break a few of ‘em down for you guys based on what I’ve seen, heard and experienced so you guys can understand the difference in their characteristics in relation to their motivations.

Gold diggers are primarily looking to lock down a rich guy by getting him to marry her or get her pregnant. There are other kinds of gold diggers out there but most of ‘em don’t wanna be fuckin’ 10 rich dudes…..they wanna trap just one so once they’ve found a target they think they can latch onto, they concentrate their efforts on him and him alone.

But we’re not focusing on gold diggers or rich guys today, we’re talking about what I call Silver Miners. Yes I just made that up but the difference between them and gold diggers is that Silver miners use Men as ATMs to fund their lifestyle. These are females who keep a few men in rotation who pay her bills, pay her rent, utilities, car payment, give her gifts, take her on vacations etc.

Now you might think these chicks are the same as gold diggers but THEY ARE NOT. Again gold diggers are looking for long term commitment from wealthy men….they’re not looking for anything short term, they’re not looking for temporary arrangement...gold diggers are looking for something permanent with a man whose verifiable net worth is at least 7 figures.

Silver Miners are not that same as Sugar babies either. Sugar babies are “temporary” gold diggers who aren’t looking to settle down with one rich guy...at least not YET...they’ve usually got 2 or 3 rich guys rotation they use to fund THEIR lifestyles but their end game is to consolidate on one of them at some point so in the meantime they juggle a few wealthy men for a few years until they decide which one they’re going to get with in the long term. Again, 7 figure net worth or more.