We’ve all made choices in relationships that, in hindsight, had us shaking our heads. But were they necessary for our growth? In this episode, we break down the viral TikTok of a woman canceling her 30th birthday trip to Paris to stay home with her boyfriend—and ask the big question: was this a canon event?

We explore regretful relationship decisions, the lessons they teach us, and whether some mistakes are just part of the journey. Plus, we get real about our own “canon events,” the ones we saw coming (and ignored), and what we’d do differently now.