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Is Your Career Over? with Bruce Feiler


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This conversation with author Bruce Feiler could not have happened at a more opportune time.

I am in the process of retiring from the full time congregational rabbinate. I am in the process of finishing up a pulpit career that lasted more than forty years.

Over the last few weeks I have found myself repeating the words of my rabbi. Peggy Lee, who sang plaintively: “Is that all there is?” 

Is that all there is to being a rabbi? You build relationships; you teach Torah; you embody; you represent; you symbolize – and then, you reach the end of your work years – and then, what?

All of my friends who are retiring, no matter what the career, find themselves asking the same question.

For some, it is: I wake up in the morning; now what do I do?

But for others, it is more like: I wake up in the morning; now who am I? Who am I if not my title and if not my job description?

Is that all there is?

Join me in my conversation with Bruce Feiler, media personality and the author of many books -- some on biblical topics ("Walking the Bible: A Journey by Land Through the Five Books of Moses," "Abraham: A Journey to the Heart of Three Faiths," "Where God was Born: A Daring Adventure Through the Bible's Greatest Stories"); on the contemporary family ("The Secrets of Happy Families: Surprising New Ideas to Bring More Togetherness, Less Chaos, and Greater Joy"), and now, on the nature of the meaning of work in today's world -- "The Search: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World."


This is what we discuss:

  • Why two-thirds of Americans say they’re unhappy with their work; why three-quarters say they plan to look for new work over the next year, and why unprecedented numbers of Americans are quitting their jobs.
  • How the very idea of "career" might be dead -- or at least, the idea of a single career.
  • Why professional success no longer requires climbing, but digging.
  • Why you should realize that you might be living a “nonlinear life.”
  • The meaning of the "workquake," and how you would recognize it if you felt it.
  • Why so many people are willing to trade in their earnings for meaning in life. (Spoiler alert: a study in 2018 that was published in the Harvard business review found that 90% of workers were willing to give up a quarter of their entire life earnings in exchange for work that was meaningful.)
  • But, throughout the podcast. I found myself smiling, because this conversation and Bruce's book reflect many things that I wrote in my own book, written almost thirty years ago (!) -- "Being God's Partner: How To Find the Hidden Link Between Spirituality and Your Work."

    Even back then, I was interested in how people bring their spiritual values into the workplace, as a way of creating both meaning and balance in their lives.

    I reminded Bruce that we have several ways of speaking about our work.

    • There is career – that which we carry.
    • There is vocation – the voice that calls to us.
    • But the Hebrew language goes one step further – to avodah – which is the word both for "work" and "divine worship."
    • It is true that some people worship their work. That is how we wind up with how we wind up with the twin idolatries of careerism and workaholism, which I noted was the only non-stigmatized addiction in American culture. It's not only not stigmatized; it is often a matter of pride. 

      But I also believe that there are ways of making our work into worship – of making sure that we incorporate the highest pieces of ourselves – so that we are not, in the words of my Yiddish speaking forebears simply machen a leben, making a living, but creating a life.

      Bruce is an old friend, from my Georgia days, and we share some sweet Jerusalem memories as well -- about how we journeyed together to a place of meaning, and first started talking about what it would mean to make your own life into a sacred pilgrimage.

      Enjoy the podcast!

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