Like BK, have it your way. Most of the way life is “marketed” to the masses is than you can have your cake and eat it too in all situations. The illusion that you can create a world in which you have majority if not full control. Events and circumstances all bend to your will. Is it a trap to have expectations when wanting a miracle? Do things have to follow your script or you’re done with it? Check out this story of preference vs needs and see what wins out.