We often hear the expression “Action Speaks Louder than Words/Voice.” This is an idiom that tells us that our actions carry more weight than our words. In other words, our attitude is what tells what we believe and who we really are. 

If you are within my view in a field, and you tell me you are coming to me, I ought to see you walking towards me, not walking in the opposite direction. But with humans, we do the opposite a lot. 

You see a woman beating a child and shouting at the top of her voice ‘Shut up, don’t even make a sound!’ You hear people say, ‘I love you and mean well for you,’ yet they take away your privileges, your goods, your joy, etc. 

The mouth is saying one thing, but the attitude is saying another.