Send us a text

It started in an airport bathroom line.

A kind gesture turned into a full-blown meltdown — and a masterclass in how people use “rules” to feel in control. 

In this episode of Get Unruly, Kim Bolourtchi breaks down why people cling to rules, how they mistake predictability for morality, and why challenging those invisible limits is often the most human thing you can do. 

You’ll hear what happens when a small act of kindness collides with someone else’s need for control — and how to recognize when the rules you’re following don’t actually make sense for you anymore. 

Because being unruly isn’t about rebellion.

 It’s about discernment — the clarity to know which rules create order, and which ones just keep you small. 

🎧 Listen now to “It Was Never About the Rule.”
Stay kind. Stay awake. Stay unruly.

Get Strategic Unruliness on Amazon

Join Kim for a free year end reset:
Radical Clarity Power Hour on December 4th

Curious what unwelcome rule is running your leadership? Take the 90 second quiz

Connect with Kim:
website
LinkedIn
Instagram