1 Corinthians 4:14 I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you. In many cases when we were children our parents taught us and warned us about things and we looked at it as a bad thing or a shameful thing. In all actuality it was to warned us and protect us but sometime we don't understand these thing until we get older. I discuss my experiences with my own parents, also the parallels when it comes to God, spirituality and the Bible. We all have to grow in understanding that in a lot of cases these things are warnings that we help us in life.