It's hard being in a relationship where you feel like you're pouring out more than you're being poured into. It causes a draining feeling like non-other. You're constantly blaming yourself for being the reason they don't give the same 100% effort you provide, and that causes you to get to a place where your heart begins to lose its love beat. You become dormant in your relationship, and you give up hope because nothing seems to be changing after all! Right?