Ever been involved with someone where it’s just magic in person, but crickets between dates? 

Or where it’s soooo good, but then he tells you he’s just “not ready”? 

This episode explains why AND what to do. 

We’re breaking down exactly what “not ready” means to men, how to tell if it’s a pattern with him, and exactly what to ask about so you can stop hoping and start knowing.

• The reason why it can be amazing when you’re together and then just nothing after. 
• The integration factor: meeting family and friends, daily contact, and the significance of all this between dates.
• One straightforward question you can ask him to truly understand the potential of a relationship. 
• What “I don’t want labels” actually tells you about obligations, consistency, and timing for a potential relationship. 
• How to hold your standards so you can attract higher quality men. 

If you’re tired of trying to decode what ‘I’m not ready” actually means, this episode will give you the clarity and understanding so you can choose aligned, consistent, commitment-ready men. 

ABOUT SAID LOVINGLY 

Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

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