It’s My Time with Tarnesha!

I'm back, ladies! After taking the summer off, I have so much to share.

In this welcome-back episode of It's My Time with Tarnesha, I'm opening up about my personal experience with uterine fibroid embolization (UFE), the realities of surgery recovery, and the importance of giving ourselves permission to rest and heal.

God gave me one word for 2026: Restore. What I didn't realize was how much restoration would require me to slow down.

We're also discussing the emotional and spiritual demands of leadership, creating healthy boundaries, and caring for the woman behind the title.

I'll introduce two exciting developments: The Chair, our pastoral counseling center at Greater Gathering Church, and Crown & Cadence, my new leadership coaching and strategic development company for CEOs, entrepreneurs, executives, and women in leadership.

In this episode, we explore:

• Uterine fibroids, UFE recovery, and women's health

• Learning to rest without guilt

• Faith, restoration, and Psalm 23

• Creating margin to dream, reflect, and grow

• Pastoral counseling, marriage support, and spiritual wellness

• Leadership coaching, emotional intelligence, and healthy boundaries

• What's next for Crown & Cadence and my forthcoming book, When Her Crown Slips

Connect with us:

The Chair — Pastoral Counseling: [email protected]

Crown & Cadence — Leadership Coaching: [email protected]

Ladies, what area of your life needs restoration?

Remember: You don't have to rush what God is restoring.

A few weeks ago for Mother’s Day at Greater Gathering Church, I shared a message that has continued to stay with me—and I felt led to share it here with the ladies of It’s My Time with Tarnesha.The message was simple, but powerful:👉 After the resurrection… what’s next for women?
 Obedience.So many of us as women have walked through heartbreak, church hurt, grief, rejection, disappointment, trauma, loss, and seasons that tested our faith.But God kept us.And sometimes after God heals us, restores us, and brings us through difficult seasons, we can become hesitant to move forward in what He’s calling us to do next.Drawing from Matthew 28 and the women at the tomb after the resurrection of Jesus, this message is a reminder that Jesus did not heal us just so we could survive—He healed us so we could move forward in purpose and obedience.In this message, we talk about:

•  healing after heartbreak and difficult seasons 
•  why healed women cannot stay stuck 
•  obedience after restoration 
•  commitment during seasons of suffering 
•  trusting God after disappointment 
•  moving forward even while fear is still present 
•  how Jesus meets us on the road of obedience 

One of the biggest reminders from this message:✨ “He healed you. He kept you. He restored you. Now go.” ✨If you’ve been waiting for another sign, another confirmation, or the perfect moment to move forward, I pray this message encourages you to trust what God has already spoken.Because what’s next for women after the resurrection is not endless hesitation.What’s next is obedience.
💬 Reflection Questions💛 For Single Women:
Has fear, disappointment, or past pain caused you to hesitate in areas where God already told you to move?💍 For Married Women:
Are you remaining committed to what God called you to—even in seasons where it feels difficult or costly?✨ For All Women:
What area of your life is God calling you to stop hesitating and start obeying?

**One important Note** We had audio issues toward the end of this podcast. Our apologies.

Can you love again after heartbreak, disappointment, or emotional pain?In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, Tarnesha sits down with licensed therapist Dr. Kelly Jackson to have a real, faith-filled conversation about healing, emotional wellness, and what it truly takes to prepare for love again.This episode is for:

•  women healing from past relationships 
•  single, divorced, or widowed women 
•  women believing God for love again 
•  women who are successful and leading in life but still desire a healthy relationship 

•  healing after heartbreak and relationship trauma 
•  why many women struggle to trust love again 
•  emotional and spiritual readiness for a healthy relationship 
•  how past wounds impact future relationships 
•  balancing independence with vulnerability 
•  trusting God with your heart again 
•  preparing for love with wisdom, faith, and emotional wholeness 

Dr. Kelly Jackson brings over 20 years of clinical experience in trauma recovery, emotional wellness, and women’s empowerment, while also sharing her personal journey of overcoming relationship challenges and recently becoming engaged.Together, we discuss:This conversation blends clinical insight and biblical truth to help women move from pain to preparation.If you’ve been asking yourself, “Can I love again?”—this episode will encourage you, challenge you, and remind you that healing is not the end of your story.
REFLECTION QUESTIONS 💛 For Single Women:
Have you truly healed from your past relationships, or are you still protecting yourself from being hurt again?💛
 Are you becoming the woman who is emotionally, spiritually, and mentally ready for the love you are praying for?💛
 Are you allowing God to show you your spouse… or is your checklist so long that you might miss the man God is trying to reveal to you?
💍 For Married Women:
Are you showing up in your marriage from a place of healing—or are past wounds still shaping how you love your spouse?

What does marriage look like when caregiving becomes part of your everyday life?

In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, Tarnesha sits down with her husband, Pastor Commodore “PC” McCrary, to talk openly about caregiving, disability, marriage, faith, and family life. PC is a disabled veteran, husband, father, and pastor, and together they share an honest conversation about what it means to navigate life, love, and leadership while living with disability.

This episode is for:

• caregivers
• wives caring for their husbands
• spouses of disabled veterans
• military families
• people living with disabilities
• couples facing health challenges
• Christian wives and women supporting loved ones through hard seasons

In this conversation, they discuss:

• what it means to be a man of God while living with disability
• how disability can affect marriage and family roles
• what caregiving looks like inside a marriage
• how wives can support their husbands with grace and strength
• how faith helps couples through physical, emotional, and life changes
• encouragement for caregivers, veterans, and families adjusting to a new normal

This episode offers support and encouragement for anyone navigating caregiving, chronic health challenges, disability in marriage, or the emotional realities of loving someone through a difficult season.

If you are a wife, caregiver, military spouse, disabled veteran, or someone supporting a loved one through disability or illness, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

Reflection Questions:

For married women:
How are you supporting your spouse in this season, not only with love, but with patience, grace, and understanding?

For all listeners:
What does commitment look like when marriage, caregiving, and disability become part of your daily life?

Keywords:
caregiving, caregivers, caregiver support, marriage and caregiving, disability in marriage, disabled veteran, veteran spouse, military family, military marriage, Christian marriage, wives and caregiving, caregiving wife, faith and disability, marriage support, chronic illness and marriage, spouse support, disability and family life

Are you struggling in your marriage and looking for biblical guidance, encouragement, and real relationship advice? 
In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we have a real, honest, and faith-filled conversation about marriage in the middle—the season where things aren’t falling apart, but they’re not exactly easy either.I’m joined by Pastor Dana Che Williams—wife of 30 years, pastor, author, coach, and host—who shares powerful insight from her book Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples.This episode is for:

•  Married women navigating challenges in their relationship 
•  Women who feel disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck in marriage 
•  Women believing God for marriage and wanting to prepare the right way 

•  Why “marriage in the middle” is one of the most overlooked seasons 
•  Biblical marriage advice from imperfect couples 
•  How to stay committed when marriage feels hard 
•  Reconnecting emotionally and spiritually with your spouse 
•  Balancing leadership in life, business, and ministry without losing alignment at home 
•  How faith, grace, and wisdom strengthen real relationships 

We discuss:This conversation will encourage you, challenge you, and remind you that your marriage doesn’t have to be perfect to be purposeful.We also share a special announcement about Tarnesha’s upcoming book:
 ✨ When Her Crown Slips: Leading in Life Without Losing Your Marriage (Fall 2026)
and how you can be part of the launch team.
💍 For Married Women:
What is one area in your marriage that needs intentional attention this week?💕 For Single Women (Believing God for Marriage):
Are you becoming the woman who is spiritually, emotionally, and mentally prepared for the marriage you are praying for?✨ For All Women:
What is one thing you can do this week to strengthen your current or future marriage?If you’ve been searching for Christian marriage encouragement, relationship advice, or biblical wisdom for marriage struggles—this episode is for you.

Have you ever found yourself in a hard place and honestly not known what to do next?

Maybe you are facing a diagnosis, grieving the loss of a loved one, walking through unexpected hardship, or simply feeling stuck and overwhelmed. In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we talk about what to do when life hits hard and you do not know how to process what you are facing.

This conversation is for married women and women believing God for marriage who want to stay grounded in faith when life feels uncertain.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Remembering whose you are and who you are

• Choosing composure over chaos in difficult seasons

• Building a strong prayer life and staying connected to the Vine

• Seeking wisdom, understanding, peace, and direction from God

If you are in a season where you need clarity, comfort, and next steps, this episode will encourage you to slow down, stay connected to God, and trust that He already knows the way forward.

Also in this episode, I share a special update about my upcoming Fall 2026 book launch, When Her Crown Slips: Leading in Life Without Losing Your Marriage, and invite listeners to stay tuned for the launch team.

Next week, Author and Pastor Dana Che joins me to discuss her new book, Tried and True: Marriage Advice from 12 Imperfect Biblical Couples.

Are you moving the needle in your life, your goals, and your marriage?

Six weeks into 2026, this episode is a powerful Christian goal-setting and marriage check-in for women who are leading in life but committed to strengthening their marriage and spiritual growth. Whether you are a married woman navigating “marriage in the middle” or a woman believing God for marriage, this conversation will help you reset with faith and intention.

In this episode of It’s My Time with Tarnesha, we talk about:

• Christian personal growth without burnout
• Tracking progress over weeks instead of days
• Giving yourself grace while maintaining discipline
• Marriage restoration and spiritual alignment
• Choosing a “word of the year” and building memorial reminders (Joshua 4)
• Why “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10) can actually move the needle

God gave me one word for 2026: Restore.

Through health challenges, unexpected snowstorms, and life interruptions, I discovered something powerful — what felt like lost momentum was actually quiet restoration. Joel 2:25 reminds us that God restores what feels delayed, distracted, or depleted.

This episode is for Christian women who desire:

• A stronger God-centered marriage

• Intentional goal tracking rooted in faith

• Spiritual growth and leadership at home

• Alignment without losing themselves

We close with reflection questions for married women and women preparing for marriage, plus a challenge:

👉 What is ONE thing you will do this week to move the needle?

Progress is not perfection.
It’s direction.
And sometimes stillness is forward movement.

If this episode encourages you, share it with another woman who is building her faith, her leadership, and her marriage in this season.

Happy New Year! Let's start the new year right by answering a very important question. Are you in a constant battle with yourself, thinking, "Am I controlling, Or Am I leading?" Let's talk about it on today's episode- My time with Tarnesha! Our FIRST episode of the 2026! Let's GO...

Join us for a special holiday episode as Pastor Commodore (PC) as my co-host,  featuring our friends Mitch and Trina Blunt, a military family we've known and loved for over 16 years. We're sitting down couple to couple to talk about:
-How to build HOME even when family lives far away
-Creating Christ-centered traditions as a military or transplanted family
-Generational shifts, new rhythms, and setting the culture in your household 
-Raising children differently than how you were raised
-Becoming the family you always prayed for
-And how to stay grounded, joyful, and connected during the holiday season
This conversation is REAL, practical, and filled with wisdom for couples, parents, military families, and anyone navigating the holidays in a new way.
You don't want to miss Home for the Holidays!  It's going to bless your family in this season. 

In this heartfelt episode, Tarnesha sits down with wife, mother, pastor, and ministry leader Sonia Nhira to discuss what it truly means to see revival within the family. Together, they explore faith, unity, and leadership in the home, how we can nurture marriages, raise godly children, and invite God's presence back into the center of our homes.

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